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Hmmmmm, I hate writing these things, I never know what to say. I love to have fun, I love adventure, will try anything within reason at least once. I hate mind games and cant stand people that lie. I am sometimes honest to a fault but appreciate the same quality in others.

Hey my name is Hollis, I'm 21. I'm a very outgoing person, I like to enjoy life to its fullest. I am all about my family and friends. I am a big OSU Cowboys fan. Also I finishing school to become a Drug Enforcement Agent working for the feds. I am majoring in Sociology.

i am a single mother who loves my kids more than anything. i have been in serious relationships before and obviously they didn't work out. i am in the process of continuing my education to become a nurse. i am new to tulsa. just moved here last week. lived here before tho. i want to find a man who will love me and my kids and treat me with love and respect

I'm a independent woman with independent grown children. I like the outdoors, sunshine and especially water. That can be anything from oceans, rivers and streams to lakes.
Fishing is relaxing to me. I have a multitude of friends, both male and female, whom I cherish.
I went to Nascar in Charlotte, NC for the very first May 2008.
Actually, it was fun. I had never had an interest, but was able to go, so I did.
I'm not sure a long term relationship is for me right now, but friends (good ones) are special to me.
I'm low maintenance and I only pamper myself (because that's all I've got).
I enjoy music, especially blues and 70s rock. If there's anything else you'd like to know, please ask me.

not sure what to say here . in my 30 years ive seen done and tried almost everything you could imagine , i mean everything. these days im kind of a loner, i mean i got a lot of friends and all, but it seems like its gotten to the point that im the only one left thats still single and childless . and you know what that means , it means nobody wants to get drunk and get loud and all my rowdy friends have settled down. picture this...its friday night,big ass bonfire, couple cases of beer, 20 or 30 friends, peoples drinkin and smokin and tokin it up and having a good time. im the big guy with the shaved head and full beard wearing overalls and boots, you know the one, there's one in every crowd, the one that all the girls "love like a brother" but would never consider dating. the one that keeps everybody laughing and makes sure everybody's having a good time. then at the end of the night im setting there alone after everybody's hooked up and gone home, no big deal right, i can handle that most of the time. now then picture this ... same friday night , same big ass bonfire, same couple cases of beer , same big guy drinkin smokin and tokin, but those 20 or 30 friends, there not there at all, and im still setting there all alone watching my fire die down. this is a big deal , this i can't handle. i can respect the fact that my friends who got kids now cant live the same lifestyle as be for, thats only right. but the pussy's who cant hang out cause there head is buried up some prissy bitch's ass, the kind of prissy bitch that looks down on people like me, they can all kiss my ass. and the ones who got sober and decided to turn there backs on all there friends of 30 years, i hope the real world eats them alive, without all of us "drunks" and "dopers" there to watch there backs. they can kiss my ass to. point is , im tired... tired of being alone, tired of being the third wheel, tired of pretending that it doesn't suck to be alone in front of all my buddies and there wives when they know damn well that im lying. i wont say that im like anyone else in this great big world cause ive never met anyone else like me, but to find a girl like me, that would freakin rock , cause ive always thought that the only girl that would be able to put up with me would be one just like me. i am by no means what you would call a pretty boy, kinda rough around the edges, but dont take that as a sign of low self esteem , there aint no shame in my game. i just know how i appear, how i look, and i know that not meny people theese days take time to see any further then skin deep . so i normaly dont make the first move i just assume (usualy a poor decision) that if a woman is interested in me she will make it clear. so if you read all this and might still be interested, please say so , cause if you wait on me to say it , it might not ever get said.

I'm just an average guy i have custody of my two great kids. I love sports like baseball tennis golf football all sorts & iâ??ve just gotten into running,spending time with my kids and i love riding my 04 ninja 250 I am a conservative republican i like to listen to Rush Limbaugh Neal Boortz and Shawn Hannity. Enjoy going to the shooting range once in awhile & playing poker. Spent my early years in New England area so i love the Red Sox & Cubs :) I'm into history i enjoy playing fantasy sports online

I am a fun loving, easy going, down to earth man. I love to have fun and spend time with people I care about. I enjoy spending time with family and I enjoy the outdoors. I like to fish, play my guitars, ride my 4-wheeler and my Harley. I have a great sense of humor. I love to spend time with my 5 year old boy. I enjoy going out with friends as well as hanging out at home listening/playing music, grilling outside, and relaxing to a good movie.

i have great confidence in myself.
which somtimes gets the best of me
i usually never pass up a time to have fun.
with me you more than likely to experience somthing that you havent ever experienced in your lifetime.

I love rain. Few things in life are more enjoyable than dozing off to the sound of rain falling on leaves. Kind of an odd thing to lead with, but it's raining right now, so there you go.

Let's see... I'm currently living at home. Yuck. But it's only a mile from work and we own the house, so I only have to go halfsies on the bills, so that's okay. It'll have to do until I realize what direction I want to take in life.

I need to get out more. I pretty much just go to work, play video games (mostly arpeegees and eff pee esses, though I love all kinds really), goof around on the interwebs, and listen to a shit ton of music. Boring, I know.

I'm fairly quiet and reserved, but I am fantastically radtacular once you get me to open up.

I also adore horrible, awful puns. Just so you know.

looking for sex only ladies no strings attached, want my first deep throat, no woman has been able to deep throat me yet looking forward to it

I'm in a band, incredibly sarcastic(love the dry humor), and something else. I'm not really good at writing these types of things, in fact, the only reason I am here is because my bassist told me to do this, and I'm bored.

well im 22, i live in a state that offers nothing, im not in college and im not sure where my life is headed. the only thing that i am sure of is i love art. any shape or form.

Is it not funny how people can write all day about other people, with only a little hesatation. But, when it comes to writing something about yourself, it seems near imposible.
Well you could say I have a lot of interests, and many of them are important to me. I like the idea, make of life what you can, and enjoy it for what it brings you.

I have recently changed jobs, and have now found happiness in that area of my life. Now I seeking companionship. You MUST love dogs.

Yo! I'm Dusty. Well, to get the boring stuff out of the way... I work, I play, I sleep, I have nice teeth, I like to have a good stiff drink, I (still) smoke cigarettes (wish I didn't though), I HAD nice shoes (long story, uninteresting but long)... Yet with all this craziness that is me, I still like to stop to smell the flowers.

Ok, now for the (debatebly) not-so-mundane. One of my passions in life is music, in fact, I like to make electronica in my spare time. Another passion is my dreadlocks. You'd think that they would be an easy haircut to keep up with, but not so much luck. As a matter of fact, I spend a good 2-3 hours on my hair a week. I still believe that nintendo and genesis games are better (in most cases) than anything being pumped out nowadays. I REALLY like older zombie movies, not because they are scary (even though they scare the living bejesus out of me from time to time), but because they are cheesy.

Oh, and my favorite color is pink.

Also, since everybody's got one: www.myspace.com/slohdown www.myspace.com/sloh www.myspace.com/derelictsaint

Yeah, I'm THAT trendy

im a down to earth cristian with a goofy since of humer,once you get to know me,though im pritty shy at first and have the habit of not speeking unless spoken to first.i have a job in jenks at a reasor's grocery store as a meat clerk.never had driving lessons,so i make up for it by riding a bike five miles to work,then i jog five miles back.i live in glenpool and have life fairly easy

I am on here to hopefully find "the one". It would be nice if she had some of the interests I do but some differences are nice as well. :) I enjoy yoga, using the computer, walking, playing videogames, weightlifting, movies, cartoons and anime...things like that. ^_^ I have a degree in Graphic Design and have a job as a designer for a local company. It would be nice to find someone who would like to share their life with me... A person I know who would be there for me, as I would be there for her. Someone who I can have nice conversations with and who has some of the interests I do would be great. ^_^ Someone who does not mind that I am a bit shy. It will be nice to hear from you! :D You can mail me at kanenak at hot *cough* mail .com if you want to.

I am a good woman, I like swimming,fishing,hicking, and camping. I also like going for walks and having fun and shopping. I enjoy hanging out with friends and family. I enjoy music and sometimes a good movie. I enjoy a nice glass of sweet wine and cuddling up in front of an nice fire. I like holding hands with the right man and being held close.

I'm white, 41, 5'9", 165 lbs., dark hair, dark green eyes. I'm told I'm very cute. I'm a nice guy, polite and respectful in public; but I can be a total animal in private...

If you think you might be interested, hit me up on yahoo messenger: okie_guy69

My email there is the same ID

Hi! Thanks for stopping by! I'm Sara - 28 years old - giving this online dating thing a shot!

My loves include: live music, sushi, movies, cooking, margaritas, two-stepping, road trips, and my family & friends!

I'm a college graduate and currently work as an Admissions Rep at a local college here in Tulsa. I love what I do and honestly can't see myself doing anything else.

I'm a typical girly girl - love makeup, hair, and fashion. However, on Sundays you can find me parked on the couch watching football! I love sports and an ideal date would be attending a sporting event!

Hey! What's this about "less moral, less pure"?!! I'm very moral...... AND I get to define my own morals while I'm at it! :)

I've recently met someone special here on OkCupid (yes, you Ari!!) and I'm representing myself "in a relationship", although that part is a bit complicated. (!!!) Not particulary looking for more dating type stuff, but we both are up for getting out and making new friends! Poly most definately doesn't want a cracker (maybe, slim to none, etc), this is Oklahoma after all.

Although no one is perfect and we all have bad days, I don't have much patience for drama queens,players, addicts, or anyone who is unwilling to be happy. All of that interferes with everybodies happy.

Hey, I just signed up for the tests. What do you people want from me?

OK, fine. I'm 5'6", have reddish blonde hair (or maybe it's blondish red), and have blue (usually) eyes. I can be described as "libertarian", "anti-government", or "anarchist".

I am an introvert, a redneck, a computer geek, and a gamer. I often come across as cold hearted, and can be a real bastard when it suits me, but I'm still under the heel of the curse whereby nice guys finish last.

By Western astrology, I'm a Cancer. I was born in the Year of the Dog (Chinese Astrology). Celtic Astrology puts me in the Holly tree. I don't put much stock in astrology, but I can be entertained by reading about it.

I'm currently working on a theory by which OKCupid is conspiring against me. It keeps sending me quiver messages containing ladies who seem interesting, but are extremely tall (compared to vertical impairedness that is me, anyway). I don't know if OKCupid is trying to tell me I need a tall girlfriend, or if OKCupid is just mocking me for being short.

When I first meet new people i come off as stern and serious, or just plain quiet, which drives off a lot of people, but to truly know me you have to be patient, let me get comfortable around you, once that happens I'm an open book

I am a child of the world I have traveled throughout the US Been to Mexico and toured eastern Europe, but there isn't anywhere i don't or wouldn't want to go

I enjoy spending time with my son, he is ten year old. We ride four wheelers, fish, play video games, R/C cars, ride bikes, watch movies, and of course cartoons.

Visiting and spending time with family is important to me so if you want to get together with me, then family must be of importance to you.

I am adventurous and like to try new things. But I am also content with staying home and watching a movie, with family and friends.

At first I am quiet and shy, but don't let that fool you. I can sometimes be the life of the party.

I like the outdoors, fishing, riding 4 wheelers, fast cars, movies, computers, technology, fine dining and too many other things to list.

I am 29 years old, currently going through a divorce. I love meeting new people and so that is why I am here. I love to be around my family and friends and don't know what I would do without them. During the summer I love going to the lake. I enjoying playing poker, but don't get to do it as often as I would like.

I enjoy alot of things, scuba diving/snorkeling is what I enjoy in the tropics, but in the real world, Im pretty easy to please. I like movies, dining out, staying in for a DVD/popcorn. I'm 5' 4", 210# and very confident in who I am as a person.

Hey, my name is Morgan. I'm a fun loving and spontaneous person. I've been told that I have a good sense of humor. I aim to show a woman a good time and treat her the way she should be treated. I'm hoping to meet a fun, outgoing girl to build a healthy relationship with.

Generally I don't beat around the bush. lol. Straight forward is the best way to be with me. So If you want to know something just ask me.

Music is my life, I am a singer/songwriter/musician. I am lead vocalist for my industrial rock/pop band Sownds (myspace.com/sowndsmusic)

i am the mother of six children Four still in school. I own my own company. I am a widow. I spent the last 20 years building my company.I want to find someone to spend time with travel, go to the casino, make me laugh. I do not need some one to take care of me.

I live in the sand springs area with a roommate and my four-legged furry child, Dixie. I work full time for a gov't contractor during the week and as an EMT on Saturdays for a rural ambulance service. I am also a volunteer firefighter. I don't have a ton of freetime but I can make time for the right person. I like camping, fishing, shooting, motorcycles, movies, cooking, music, etc...

I will tell you that I tend to be pretty blunt and tell it like I see it... I am independent and I work and can take care of myself... and I expect the same out of a partner... I try to avoid drama and I don't lie, cheat, or play games... and I prefer to be around people who are like minded in that regard... I'm a goofball and I love to laugh... so I probably wouldnt get along with anyone that was super-uptight... don't get me wrong, I can be serious when I need to be... but I try to keep that to an absolute minimum.

My name is Chester. I'm 18. I love music and literature. I dance to my own groove, but I'd love to collaborate with someone. I also think that what I just said was pretty witty. ;D

I'm a nice guy. I'm very relaxed, too. I don't get upset easily, and I'm as understanding as humanly possible. I'm a rather eclectic person in regards to everything. Music, literature, film, art, politics-- I span the spectrum in all of them.

I'm a pretty normal guy. Normal, but not your average guy. I love to travel, but I don't like sight-seeing. I'd rather get to know the people, and just relax in an environment different than my own. I love people. I like to do absurd things for no reason other than the memories. By absurd, I mean pole-dancing in the Eyemart Express parking lot and walking through the neighborhood with champagne classes filled with orange soda or the blue Jones soda. Don't let my previous escapades intimidate you. I'm sure you'd love it if you tried it.

I enjoy movies, reading, playing video games, and photography. My newest hobby is playing golf, which I really enjoy. I love spending time with my family and have a nephew who is the light of my life.

I work in IT as a Business Analyst...which basically means I have to be able to talk about and understand a business user's needs and translate that into geek speak for the IT department. Its a great job that I really enjoy and I think I finally found the niche I've been looking for career-wise.

I'm not going to act embarrased that I am looking for a connection on a website-why should I feel funny about it? Obviously you are too or you wouldn't be reading this right now! I am a funny, down-to-earth, hard-working woman who has made quite a few mistakes along the way and have no trouble admitting to them. They made me what I am today. I absolutely love my children! They are amazing! Even after fifteen years my job is still new and exciting all the time and even at my advanced age(LOL) I find I learn something new almost everyday. I have come to feel that if you just trust in people-sometimes they let you down-but be proud you had the courage to believe in humanity. Life is what you make it. If you are a negative person you will attract negativity. Don't worry about what you can't change and enjoy every moment God has blessed you with. Face each obstacle with grace and poise, don't wallow in self-pity and if you can-don't let anyone know that you are shaking in your boots!!!!

Hey I'm Courtney! I am a very caring person. I like to have fun! I have a very outgoing and laid back personality! I love to laugh and make people laugh! I love to dance!

I am a really sweet guy that is always happy it dont take me mutch to be happy .If the people i love is happy then im happy.I just want to meet a nice girl that is honest and can keep it real

umm.. Im kinda new at this whole online dating thing, but to tell you the truth. Thats not what Im really here for either. Me and my wife have just recently split up, and we were together for about 6 years, and married for the last 2 of that. So really all I want out of this site is for someone to hang out with randomly, and if it works out that I make a new friend out of the deal cool!
I love music, and going to concerts, haven't been to but a handfull, but I plan to go to many more. I play the guitar, and a little bit of the trumpet, and harmonica. Im better at the guitar than the other two.
I spend a lot of my time outdoors, unless it is cold, I don't really like the cold too much it makes my body hurt! I love to build things of my own design I am very handy. I am always trying to learn something, I enjoy knowledge and I would like to have as much as I can get.
One of my favorite quotes is " I have no admiration for a man, who does not know more today. Than he did yesterday." -Abrham Lincoln
Well as you can see Im kinda of nerdy, but if you dont like it. There are about 8.5 billion other people you can go talk to then!

Hiya, I'm aleks and i make brutal first impressions. I dont dance, i do however play/listen/write music! I'm into athletic things, such as soccer(which i have been playing since i was 8), basketball with the crew, or football on a warm summer day. I do have a daughter who is my one and only true love so if you dont like competition get over it. I enjoy, beyond anything, cuddling and just sitting at home enjoying another persons company.
Currently I am looking for a best friend/significant other. My only wish is that I could find both in one girl. I enjoy just randomly hanging out too so dont be afraid to ask. I'd rather have a good friend than a shitty girlfriend so please come and bring a smile.

I am a single mom that is tired of the head games. I am looking for that one person that can be my best friend. That will stand by me no matter what life may throw our way, and I will stand by him. I enjoy spending time outside doing just about any and everything. During the summer me and the kids like to camp, fish, cook out, going the the park, zoo, of just hanging out with family and friends. I am not looking for someone to support me, I am doing a good job of supporting myself. Just want to share my spare time with that one special person. If you would like to know, drop me a line and lets chat...

Hi, desribing myself isn't easy to those who don't know me, even some of my "friends" still don't know me. I am a fairly easy going, fun-loving outgoing guy. I like to just take time to smell the roses. I am just kind of letting life take me where it wants right now, but I hope to find a few friends to share the journey and maybe a special woman to help me choose the right path to travel.

Let me start off by saying I do not look or act my age. I have the energy and looks of a younger woman and maybe that's why I tend to be around those who are younger. Age is just a number, it's about the chemistry between two people that matters to me. I am what I am and that's not gonna change anytime soon, if ever.
I live in the country in a big house that feels very empty with me being single. I've got 9 acres of land - can be a pain in the butt when it's time to rake leaves and or mow but on nice weather days I do enjoy those things. I love to travel but hate to travel alone. Everyone needs some time away from day to day stuff every now and then. I don't go to bars, if I'm gonna drink I would rather do it in a house setting. I would rather talk than text and am not shy about meeting people in person. I'm a free thinker and outspoken. I don't have kids nor do I want any. I'm looking to make a connection with someone special and make new friends.
I wanting someone who is thoughtful and romantic.
I'M NOT HAVING SEX UNLESS IN A COMMITTED RELATIONSHIP, so if that's what you're looking for DON'T BOTHER CONTACTING ME

Well. I am not sure what to say..Maybe a few words from a Literary charecter will best say my veiw on the world..Nitwit Fubber Oddment and Tweak ..A Dumbledore

Hey, hows it goin. Im sonnie. im 23, and have two great kids. One boy one girl. I love sports, football, basketball, and nascar. i also enjoy fishing hunting and just about any outdoor activity. Im also a big reader and movie lover. On hear lookin for somthing serious, and some new friends.Really tired of one night stands, looking for someone who wants to be serious, and dosnt wnat to play games. My kids come first, so sorry mif thats a inconvience.Im a fun loving guy, not serious obout to much, have a great sence of humor.

I am somewhat old fashioned and really have a hard time messaging or calling a man first (I was brought up to believe guys do that lol, that is something I am working on) My zip code is Tulsa, but I am a Sand Springs girl, born and raised here, just a technicality that my zip code is Tulsa lol.

I am a Certified Medical Assistant. My family is everything to me. I enjoy drawing, watching old movies (musicals are the best), camping, fishing, going to the zoo, holding hands, snuggling, kissing, going to the lake, and many other things. My dad was a square dance caller, so Yes I do know how to square dance. I enjoy going to the Aquarium, plays, musicals. I believe "having fun" is inside you and if with the right person can be had doing most anything, even a trip to the dollar store can be loads of fun LOL. I have been married twice, first time to my childhood sweetheart that lasted 24 years and produced my two wonderful sons. I believe in true love and romance but am still looking for it. Like any other woman I am waiting to be swept off my feet by a man that knows how to treat a woman. I enjoy having the door opened for me and small gestures of kindness, but at the same time am quite capable of doing it myself. I do smoke but trying to quit, quit once and after 1 1/2 years started again ( I know ... dumb lol )

Hello, my name is Dyanna! I live in Sand Springs, Ok. I'm 24 years, brown curly hair, green eyes, 5'4, and I'm a plus size girl. If your just here looking for one night stands please pass me along! I'm looking for someone who wants to start out as friends and maybe work up to something else. I just graduated college in december with a degree in biology. I'm a fun, outgoing girl, with a great personailty and looking for same in a guy. =)

I am a single Mom with three girls and I have been divorced many years. I have not had the best of luck in relationships since my divorce but thought I would get out and try again.

I am a large sized woman and no that does not necessarily mean by boobs are big, so sorry to disappoint.

I like anything to do with water like {{swimming}}, {{boating}}, {{fishing}}. I like to {{garden}}, and go to {{garage sales, and flea markets}}.

I don't think I am asking for much when I say I want an honest man. I don't care if you make allot of money as long as you work. I don't care if you are drop dead gorgeous as I have no right to judge. I want someone to grow old with, someone who likes to hold hands, cuddle on the couch, kiss and snuggle with.

I'm 5'4, skinny, blue eyes, blonde hair. I'm an animal lover. I love to hang out with my friends, listen to music, go 4-wheeling when I can, I like to go huntin' and fishin'. I just like to have fun and enjoy life. oh..and I love watching football.... My favorite college team is OU!!! I'm very much a smartass... to anybody and everybody. It's just who I am.

Im a nice guy seriously. um i have big ambitions in life and just wanna meet somebody nice and down to earth. I honestly think that were all meant to be with somebody. I wish i could be in love again. Ive had my heart broken a couple of times so if your planning on breaking my heart dont even try to talk to me. Just kindding i mean how would you know right?

I am a recent college grad who has decided that I am not done with college and it is not done with me. I believe, if things go accordingly, I will be back in to work on my MS in TCOM or Emergency Management this fall.

I'm pretty laid back, and don't deal with drama so don't bring any with you. I'm pretty lazy too, but if something needs to be done I do it immediatley, otherwise optional tasks will be put off to the absolute last minute.

And according to OKCupid's political test, i am a capitalist pig-dog, but I align myself more with Moderates or Libertarians.

DISCLAIMER: Gentlemen, while I am perfectly interested in you as friends, I am not looking for a man to date. I apologize for the inconvenience.

I have had a extremely (and sometimes unfortunately) eventful life. I've had many different living situations and usually keep around a strange mix of friends and acquaintances. I am pretty strange and pretty bluntly honest (though I can be polite and tell the truth at the same time usually).

I enjoy: biology, photography, learning (on my own), and a wide variety of other subjects.

I am also interested in living a nomadic lifestyle and am looking for others who might want to travel with me. I currently live in an Airstream travel trailer and will be looking for someone with a 1/2 ton or better truck to help pull it when I hit the road (which won't be for a little while yet because I need to get school straightened out and save up some cash).

*(~ ~)*

Self is the only prison that can ever bind the soul. ~Henry Van Dyke

(I like quotes)

my self summary is always changing but I have not the time to keep up with it. I'm not really sure it's necessary. Whatever I could tell you here would only be me trying to be honest but failing because it's my perception of myself mixed with what I want you to know or think about me. so....
there you go.

(if you're any good with the gray matter I'm completely transparent.)

I like playing with my kids and taking them new places, trying new things and meeting new people. I'm interested in all learning, even the hard kind. I don't like to wear shoes or socks in the house. I work a lot in and out of the house and like to keep busy. I enjoy being open and I'm not sure how to be any other way. That's not to be confused with my being open to anything. I have a fairly decent grasp on what I'm into and what my limits are.

Why does this thing have the feel of a job application? So things I am good at...I can count to thirty in Spanish, walk backwards on a balance beam, quote any line from Anchor Man, popping my knuckles, and driving above the speed limit. By the way if you have made it this far then congrats, you have a sense of humor! About me...well Im pretty laid back and enjoy having fun if you cant tell already, there is no room for stress or drama in my life so if you are one that collects a lot of skeletons in the closet then Im probably not the one for you. Im very passionate about sports, music, old episodes of saved by the bell, traveling, the perfect ice cream flavor, current events, and of course the unintentional comedy of Keanu Reeves. Im pretty sarcastic but its all in good fun. I am a college graduate and have a great job that will allow me to achieve goals I have set for myself and am looking for someone who has goals themselves as well and has the desire to be successful at life, and not just successful financially because any idiot can make a little bit of money.

I really enjoy all kinds of music. I especially like going to see music live. I like to ride my motorcycle while listening to my MP3 player and just take in the scenery and sites. I like to going to the lake and riding my Sea Doo's. I like to go the clubs and go dancing.
Looking for someone that has the desire and ability to go out and have fun with me :)

Hi! I haven't written an essay yet because I joined OkCupid very recently. This space is where I'll express myself soon though. If you'd like to know more about me, please send me a message. This is the default essay OkCupid fills in for new users who haven't written about themselves yet.

I am somewhat of an introvert, I really love hanging out with my friends but sometimes it takes a bit of effort on their part to get me out. I'd really rather just hang out with my friends and shoot the breeze as apposed to going out but at the same time, sometimes it's just necessary to go out and have a good time. My three cats drive me crazy but I still love them. I love gardening and I always look forward to Spring... it's always so fun and exciting to see everything popping up out of the ground knowing how beautiful it's going to look when it's full-grown and appreciating it's potential. Perfect example, just today I saw a little leaf sprout of a tulip that I had completely forgotten that I had planted like 4 years ago! I'm really shy at first but once I know you, I don't hesitate to talk. I can't stand superficial and judgemental people, not to say that I'm perfect, far from it, I judge people by their appearance too, sometimes I'm right and sometimes I'm wrong. I like beer... did I mention that I like beer? In fact... just a few months ago, I decided to pick up the hobby of home-brewing. "How many licks does it take to get to the center of a Tootsie Roll Pop?" I'm also very random... that just popped into my head and I don't know why. A little hard work never hurt anyone... okay, so it may leave you with some aches and pains but suck it up! I feel pity for those who have never experienced a hard days work... pity? Maybe ashamed or disappointed would be more accurate.

My stats say that I'm "more attentive" and "more loving". Let me try to explain what that means to me. I want make it my goal to see the girl I care about smile. I enjoy cuddling. I think there's nothing better than just holding the person you feel intimate with. I'm not hesitant to give compliments, and if I say it, I mean it. I want to find someone I can share at least part of my life with and make happy. I'm not looking for marriage any time soon, but I'm not interested in flings. Ideally, I'd like to find something that lasts.

The thing I'm most attracted to in someone is a kind heart. I'm looking for someone who enjoys giving and receiving attention, even if it's just by talking with each other or listening to something you're worried or excited about. I have a bit of a goofy sense of humor, so I'd like to meet someone who would enjoy that. I find intelligence very attractive, and I've found it comes in many flavors. I tend to be biased toward girls who are somewhat overweight, but personality can make all the difference. :)

(My friend wrote this about me, and it amuses me enough to keep it):

"i am a bad ass.

i am also very nice.

i am very good with women. if i choose to respond to your message, feel flattered, because there's a damn huge line knocking at my door."

My turn: Ok, first of all, only the first two lines he wrote are true ;)

I consider myself liberal (GASP), which to me means that I'm pretty accepting of others, and I keep my beliefs and morals out of other people's lives. I don't do drugs and usually don't drink, but I don't mind people who do. As long as they don't hurt anyone else, I figure it's more of a health issue than a moral issue. I don't smoke, but a decent number of my friends do, so I guess you could call me a second-hand smoker. I don't like to smell like smoke though, so I shower it off as soon as I can. You say maybe I just shouldn't hang out with people who smoke? Nah, my friends are too awesome for that.

My name is David. The best way to describe myself is normal and well rounded. No, really, I'm normal I promise. I'm not really good at describing myself. First off, I live on my own, take care of myself and basically do everything by myself. I am used to that, especailly being an only child, but I have always wanted someone to share my thoughts, feelings, and memories with... I love doing all sorts of stuff, but there are some things I donâ??t do. I donâ??t go to clubs, and I have never been much for parties. Donâ??t get me wrong, I'll show you a good time, but I am a little more creative than just going to clubs, bars, and so on. I am very hard to offend, but I do have feelings. I can be light hearted and serious, and I love being either one. I am a very patient and considerate person, but I dont like to waste time either. Im the type of guy who gets all teary eyed at the end of terminator 2. Seriously, it was emotional for me. I dont like people who are easily angered, they bug me. I tend to smile and laugh alot at just about anything. I like to laugh in awkward situations too. Some of my friends think I am old fashion, I think that is true. Ever since I can remember, I've been told that I am mature for my age. I could go on with all sorts of aspects about my personality, but its best to get to know me. I want someone that I can talk to whenever I need to, and talk about anything. I want a girl that actually needs a man. I like to feel needed and appreciated, who doesnâ??t. I am looking for a girl that likes to talk about her feelings and not hide anything from me. Yes, I love to listen, and yes, I do remember what I hear. I want a girl that likes to wear dresses and dress nice, but be able to put on jeans and not be afraid to get a little dirt on her shoes. I want someone I can have fun with. Someone who I can be best friends with and more. I want a girl that has girlfriends and no guy friends, sorry no exceptions, I have had a few bad experiences. I like girls that are smart so that I can actualy carry on a conversation with them. I'm not shallow or anything, but I am looking for an attractive girl, what guy isnt. And most of all, I want a girl who wants a serious relationship. I could go on about what I want in a girl also, but I would rather like to just get to know her.